Virginity is a popular theme in many sexual fantasies for both men and women. The mystique associated with taking someone’s virginity can be very intense and emotional. You may have been taught to “save it” for that special person and make the moment extra special. The thought of being your partner’s first lover can be exciting and nerve racking at the same time. You can recapture the thrill of first time sex and even rewrite your sexual history if you desire. One or both of you can roleplay as virgins in many different ways to spice up your bedroom games.
Virginity is often associated with someone young and innocent but it can also be about someone who is sexually curious, seductive or naughty. A woman’s virginity is highly valued in many cultures today as it was throughout history – a prize to be rewarded, taken or even sacrificed and which must be guarded carefully. But even male virginity is often prized by women. What ever your beliefs, you can recreate your first time again, pretend you are a virgin with your current partner or even enjoy an erotic “deflowering” fantasy together. Your roleplay games can be as simple as pretending you are shy and innocent or an elaborately planned scene involving props and costumes.
First Time Sex – Virgin Roleplay Ideas
To inspire your own virgin roleplay games, here are some ideas to spice up your sex play. There are links to various costumes and accessories that will enhance your virgin fantasy and better enable you to get into character.
- Wedding Night Bliss: even if you are already married or living together, you can always recreate the magical feeling of newly wed virgins. Rent a hotel room or quickly redecorate your bedroom (fresh sheets, flowers, extra throw pillows, etc.). Get a bottle of champagne and dress for the occasion – go all out with a white wedding dress and suit/tuxedo or skip right to some white lingerie and silk boxers. You’re both anxious but want to take time to discover each other – make it special and loving. Tentatively touch, kiss and gently caress each other – pretend it’s all new as you focus on each luscious sensation. Put on some romantic music and dance sensually as you undress each other slowly. Make love while still wearing some of your wedding clothes. Look deeply into each other’s eyes as you tenderly initiate intercourse for the first time.
- High School Sweet Hearts: teenagers in love – the first kiss, holding hands, necking, cuddling and fondling made your pulses race but you never went all the way. That is until tonight! While inexperienced, you both are horny, eager and ready for more. But when and where are you going to be able to do it? Are you home alone with your parents expected back in a few hours? Are you on a date making out in the back seat of a car? Have you arranged a secret liaison at night in your room – he has to crawl through your window and keep very quiet so your parents don’t hear you? Try out all the different variations on special anniversaries or romantic holidays.
- Cheer Leader & Sports Star: You’re the sexy cheer leader, he’s the school sports star and you’ve won the championship. You’re going off to separate universities so now is as good a time as any to celebrate and lose your virginity at the same time. There’s a big house party planned and you’ve arranged to have one of the bedrooms reserved for just the two of you. Only question is – do you make out in your uniforms or not?
- Prom Night: dressed up and dancing close to each other all night is driving you both crazy with anticipation. You’ve planned this for months – saving yourself for this special occasion. The night is going to be perfect – limo service, a few drinks, the motel room and a late curfew. You both look amazing, you’ve graduated and there’s only one thing to take care of before you truly consider yourself adults.
- Taboo Temptress: she’s a young nymphet – mischievous, naughty and of course very sexy. She’s fully aware of how to use her sexual power to get what she wants even if it means giving up her virginity. Being off limits to older guys makes it even more exciting for her. Maybe she’s the baby sitter that seduces the husband while he drives her home or the naughty school girl who wants her grades improved. Or maybe she wants to tempt a guy from a rival girl – to take his virginity before he can share it with her. But what will she want in return for her virgin secrecy?
- Sex Education: you’re a sexually maturing but innocent younger person looking for an older, more experienced partner to teach you the pleasures of making love. And of course they are more than happy to help you. Maybe an escort or stripper is hired to initiate you into sex as a birthday gift. Or a friend of your older brother or sister comes around to visit but no one else is home so you take advantage of the situation. Your fantasy initiation into sex could be from a neighbor, a stranger, a celebrity, a friend of the family or even a relative.
- Mature Virgin: she’s prim and proper on the outside but she’s ready to burst with sexual desire. You sense her need and see her beauty even though she tries to hide it. She’s afraid of her lust but secretly craves all the young men that pass her by. Maybe she’s a sexy secretary or a hot librarian that you catch reading the Kama Sutra
- Magical Gender Transformation: unlike a werewolf, he’s been cursed to change into a horny young woman whenever the moon is full. To change back to his male form, he must sacrifice his renewed feminine virginity and pass on the curse. Download a few inexpensive erotica stories about magical gender transformation and read them together. Weave these stories into your own sexual roleplay ideas.
More Virgin Deflowering Roleplay Ideas
Here is a brief list of other virginity related roleplay games you can play that have a more intense fantasy theme:
- Harem girl inspected and taken by the Sultan or King
- Pagan initiation into the realm of sexual magic
- Black Mass or Aztec Virgin Sacrifice to the Gods
- Religious purity is defiled by your evil seduction
- Virginity auction at a Victorian brothel – see Fanny Hill
- Angel seduced by a demon or falls for a gorgeous mortal
- Sex slave auction with special premium on virgins
- Virgin offered as the prize for a gladiator contest
- Your virginity is offered as a payment or gift
- Virgin offered to a mythical beast, demon or alien
- Time travel allows you to take your partner’s virginity first
(Hi – you don’t know me yet but let’s have sex)
Although female virginity is conventionally valued more, these roleplay ideas can be adapted for either sex. Work in your own creative “proof of virginity” tests if you wish.
Remember that not all these fantasies are lovey-dovey type scenarios. In these roleplaying games you can be or do anything you want. Explore wild fantasies in your imagination just for the mental thrill – it doesn’t mean you want to do it in real life or that you condone it being done to others. These pretend bedroom games are for your sexual pleasure so enjoy yourselves any way you desire.
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You’re bound to find many creative new ways to spice up your adult play and make your sex life even more fun.