Sexual Fantasies for Couples
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Imagine lying naked beside your lover in bed with flickering candle light making your bodies look warm and sensual. You feel yourself getting excited as you stroke their body and feel them quiver with delight under your finger tips. They close their eyes and enjoy the pleasure of your hot kisses leading down their neck, chest and belly to their thighs. Think about what you would do next.
If you allowed yourself to indulge in this little thought exercise, you just enjoyed a brief sexual fantasy. It may not trigger all your hot buttons but I bet it stirred up a few feelings of desire. Many people don’t realize that they fantasize and may even claim they don’t. But just planning a romantic evening with the intent to get laid later is fantasizing. Any time you think of having sex or recall a memory of a past sexual encounter that’s your mind fantasizing. It’s an important part of your sex life and ultimately your relationship that deserves more attention.
Welcome to Frisky Sexual Fantasies. This website is intended for couples who want to explore their fantasies and enhance their sexual creativity by exercising and exploring their erotic imaginations together. There are many reasons for indulging in and sharing your sexual fantasies. My wife and I will explore how you can use your fantasies to help make your sex life more exciting and fulfilling.
Great sex occurs when our mind is completely in synch with what our body is experiencing. But our mind is easily distracted with mundane thoughts of the day or unpleasant aspects of our current setting (noise, clutter, etc.). Whether alone masturbating or having sex with a partner, you can close your eyes and let an exciting fantasy push away all negative thoughts. In just a few moments you can transport yourself into a new sexual situation that is exciting and arousing. There are so many erotic possibilities to enjoy. The variety of wild sexual adventures you can experience is limitless. With sexual fantasies you can be anyone and do anyone any where any time. You can indulge all your deepest darkest desires with no guilt, shame or danger. And best of all, your imagination is free.
A fantasy can be as simple as pretending to be in a different place or making love to a different person. Even thinking how you want to make love with your partner later is fantasizing. Recalling past love making experiences is also fantasizing. It doesn’t even have to be very explicit or visual – just recalling a feeling or sensation can get you in the mood for more or make you feel good when you’re sad or alone. Fantasies can also be complex and elaborate with entire stories wrapped around various events leading to a sexual climax. They may involve detailed characters, settings and situations combined with various objects or language that have deep emotional associations for you.
Sexual fantasy can even help couples in a monogamous relationship resist the temptation to cheat. Many people end up having an affair to satisfy their own sexual needs that could easily be fulfilled in their relationship. Many times the need is just for more sexual variety which could be addressed with shared or private fantasies. We all need to feel the excitement of doing something new and out of the ordinary.
If you are in a long term relationship, your sex life may be getting a little dull, routine or even boring. Novelty is a crucial ingredient for keeping your passion for life and each other energized. You may already be using fantasies while masturbating or even while having sex with your partner to make it more exciting. Why not try to communicate your desires with your partner and share the excitement. Discussing sex together will encourage you both to try out new things with each other rather than just keeping it private or worse, sharing them with someone else. Sure there are some fears that your partner may reject your ideas or think you’re a pervert or slut. Sharing fantasies is a delicate act that takes courage especially in an intimate, caring, stable and comfortable relationship.
You can dramatically enhance, improve and possibly even save your relationship and your sex life by sharing fantasies with your lover. Involving each other in a creative erotic adventure can spice up your desire leading to more passionate and fulfilling sex. It also gives you the opportunity to share what turns you on. Although it is rare that you will both get the same thrill from any one particular fantasy, sharing your fantasies can lead you toward a greater level of trust and empathy for each other. Most people want to please their partner and will usually try to incorporate the other’s fantasy into their sex play at some point. You may even be able to find mutually compatible fantasies that you can play with together.
We’ve created this website to provide inspiration to fuel your fantasies and help you discover ways to enhance your sex life by using them either alone or together with your partner. We will even explore ways you can role-play your sexual fantasies and creatively stimulate your erotic imagination with movies, books, websites and art. We aren’t psychologists so we can’t give you medical advice of any kind but we hope you’ll join us as we explore frisky sexual fantasies for fun and pleasure.
Sexy Witch Sexual Fantasies
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
If you want to bring some magic into your bedroom games, try roleplaying your sexual fantasies with a witch or warlock theme. There are good and bad witches so you can include a range of erotic ideas to suit any taste. And there are some amazing witch costumes to help get you into character.
Just showing up in the bedroom with a Sexy Witch costume can be very hot and exciting. But if you discuss a few roleplay ideas with your partner ahead of time, you can make your erotic games even more fun. Take the time to plan out a bit of a story line or adapt one from a movie or book you both enjoyed. You can even get some sexy accessories or props and setup a scene to further enhance the mood such as:
- Eerie background music or sound effects
- Selection of magic wands (glass dildo, vibrators, butt plugs, riding crop)
- Bubbly potion or magic elixir (champagne, wine, herbal enhancer)
- Anointing substances (flavored oils, syrup, stimulating lubes, lipstick, body paint)
- Red satin sheets with a black comforter
- Candles and incense – or do it outside during a full moon
- Erotic “torture” devices (feather, nipple clamps, whip, paddle, hot wax)
- Exotic witches brew ingredients (grapes, oysters, dark chocolate, liquors, gummy worms, candy spiders, etc.)
- Love spells or sexy incantations – leather bound book or aged paper scroll
Of course you’ll want to weave in a good reason to have sex after playing with each other for a while. The foreplay can be sweet and sensual or wicked and nasty – good time as any to get the bondage and SM gear out.
Here are a few ideas to help inspire your wicked and wanton adventures with erotic witchcraft:
- An innocent young witch is being trained to tap into her sexual energy by a wicked warlock. It is forbidden yet powerful knowledge that tempts her – she is eager to experience all his erotic secrets whatever the out come.
- You have lured an innocent male into your haunted lair. He is tied up and struggling but can’t resist the building excitement as you defile his purity. You unlock his primal urges and release him from his inhibitions. He is so grateful that he becomes your sexual servant to satisfy all your nasty desires.
- You’re a good witch promoting sexual healing. You’ve been asked to help a man improve his potency, virility and lovemaking skills. You train him in the sensual art of pleasuring a woman with hands on, guided instructions (female orgasm revealed). Introduce him to new sexual techniques and special orgasmic remedies.
- A man is haunted by dreams of extreme lust – lewd and nasty acts of depravity. You’re a good witch asked to help free these sexual demons from his mind. There is only one way – he must act them out and experience the pain and pleasure of these erotic activities. Only in heightened states of orgasm can they be purged from his mind. He must describe the action in detail then allow you to heal him – you’ll do whatever it takes.
- You’re a virgin witch who has just discovered a special spell. Lusting for power, you’re willing to sacrifice your virginity to tap into your sexual energy. You conjure up a demon lover (devil, vampire, werewolf) to ravish you and fulfill the ritual. The beast is insatiable as it takes you again and again. The ecstasy you experience is worth the price.
- It’s been foretold that a new Queen of Darkness will be conceived tonight during a full moon and exactly at the stroke of midnight. You have selected a man carefully and have him prepared for a supernatural conception. Timing is crucial and if he fails to cum in side you at the designated time there will be hell to pay.
- A headmaster of a boarding school finds one of the girls practicing her magic dressed as a dark witch. She must be punished but something isn’t right. Did she plan this on purpose? Is he being used for her dark pleasure?
Being a naughty little Wicked Witch can be very erotic. When you get into character you may find yourself doing things your secretly desired but were afraid to try. Dress up as a sexy witch and see what kind of magic you can bring to your bedroom games.
Wicked Temptations has a great collection of sexy costumes to choose from. Order a few for Halloween and use them later to role play a few sexual fantasies.
Vampire Seduction Sexual Fantasies
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Dracula and all the creepy vampire variations have haunted and fascinated our imaginations for ages. The hypnotic power to seduce others with elegant charm and sophistication inspires our own desire for control and submission. We want to explore our secret fantasies and forbidden dreams – to experience that dark force that makes us do wild and wicked things to satisfy those urges.
Just imagine having the ability to make others submit to your will and satisfy your needs. To have the power to manipulate their thoughts and feelings so they crave your touch, your kiss, your bite … your love. They submit to your hunger and lust as they get overwhelmed by your persuasive passion.
Or be the helpless victim as your vampire lover takes possession of your mind and body. It knows your inner most secret desires and breaks down your inhibitions … you’re powerless to resist its deviant and lascivious intentions. You beg for them to take you completely – to experience ultimate ecstasy as you submit to your own hunger.
Either way, roleplaying a vampire scenario can add extra excitement to your adult fun. Discuss some ideas with your partner to see what role they would like to play. Adapt a scene from one of your favorite movies or books or make up your own. You can make the story line eerie and scary or turn it into a sexy spoof. Of course you’ll want to weave sex into the mix – no actual blood sucking in these bedroom games. There are many other parts of your bodies that can be licked and sucked instead.
Here are a few ideas to inspire your own erotic horror show ideas:
- The innocent looking white lingerie doesn’t fool you – you know she’s turned into one of them. She’s tied to the bed and there’s only one way to save her. You need to give her an orgasm while penetrating her with your man stake. But if she makes you cum first, you’re doomed because it will complete her transformation – her powers will be energized. So get out your holy lube and glass dildo. Drive her into a frenzy of animal lust before you venture in to finish the job.
- Your master appears before you. You drop to your knees to await his command. Tonight he has promised to transform you into his immortal bride. He will nourish himself on your female essence before allowing you to suck on him. Taunting you with his mighty scepter, you must prove your worthiness before he allows you to swallow his demon elixir.
- You’ve been hunting the Queen of Darkness in her lair but night has fallen and you stumbled into her trap. Under her control, you are bound and displayed for her sadistic pleasure. Hot flashes of her wicked intentions flicker through your mind – fear mixes with excitement as you watch her approach. You’re now her play thing. But when she’s finished playing, will she suck and drain you until you collapse or make you service her until she’s satiated?
- Sleeping comfortably you suddenly become aware you’re having the most erotic dream. You can’t open your eyes but you sense you’re not alone. Images of hot sex and screams of ecstasy distract you. It feels like someone is stroking and licking you. You’re about to orgasm – do you lay back and enjoy the sensation or fight to wake up?
All you really need is a set of fake fangs and a wicked imagination to enjoy a night of erotic fun. But a good vampire costume (Wicked Temptations has a great collection) and some sexy accessories or props can enhance the scene. Add to the mood with candles and eerie background music or sound effects. You can even include some red wine as fake blood – helps get you into character too.
We fear and covet our dark side especially in our fantasies. But in our minds, we have the power to pursue what we truly want even if it is a little naughty, mischievous or down right nasty. Add a bit of bite to your bedroom games – roleplay a sexy vampire and willing victim tonight. Experience the erotic thrill of being predator or prey.
Virgin Role Play Sexual Fantasies
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Virginity is a popular theme in many sexual fantasies for both men and women. The mystique associated with taking someone’s virginity can be very intense and emotional. You may have been taught to “save it” for that special person and make the moment extra special. The thought of being your partner’s first lover can be exciting and nerve racking at the same time. You can recapture the thrill of first time sex and even rewrite your sexual history if you desire. One or both of you can roleplay as virgins in many different ways to spice up your bedroom games.
Virginity is often associated with someone young and innocent but it can also be about someone who is sexually curious, seductive or naughty. A woman’s virginity is highly valued in many cultures today as it was throughout history – a prize to be rewarded, taken or even sacrificed and which must be guarded carefully. But even male virginity is often prized by women. What ever your beliefs, you can recreate your first time again, pretend you are a virgin with your current partner or even enjoy an erotic “deflowering” fantasy together. Your roleplay games can be as simple as pretending you are shy and innocent or an elaborately planned scene involving props and costumes. (Wicked Temptations has a great collection for your roleplay games)
To inspire your own virgin roleplay games, here are some ideas to spice up your sex play. There are links to various costumes and accessories that will enhance your virgin fantasy and better enable you to get into character.
- Wedding Night Bliss: even if you are already married or living together, you can always recreate the magical feeling of newly wed virgins. Rent a hotel room or quickly redecorate your bedroom (fresh sheets, flowers, extra throw pillows, etc.). Get a bottle of champagne and dress for the occasion – go all out with a white wedding dress and suit/tuxedo or skip right to some white lingerie and silk boxers. You’re both anxious but want to take time to discover each other – make it special and loving. Tentatively touch, kiss and gently caress each other – pretend it’s all new as you focus on each luscious sensation. Put on some romantic music and dance sensually as you undress each other slowly. Make love while still wearing some of your wedding clothes. Look deeply into each other’s eyes as you tenderly initiate intercourse for the first time.
- High School Sweet Hearts: teenagers in love – the first kiss, holding hands, necking, cuddling and fondling made your pulses race but you never went all the way. That is until tonight! While inexperienced, you both are horny, eager and ready for more. But when and where are you going to be able to do it? Are you home alone with your parents expected back in a few hours? Are you on a date making out in the back seat of a car? Have you arranged a secret liaison at night in your room – he has to crawl through your window and keep very quiet so your parents don’t hear you? Try out all the different variations on special anniversaries or romantic holidays.
- Cheer Leader & Sports Star: You’re the sexy cheer leader, he’s the school sports star and you’ve won the championship. You’re going off to separate universities so now is as good a time as any to celebrate and lose your virginity at the same time. There’s a big house party planned and you’ve arranged to have one of the bedrooms reserved for just the two of you. Only question is – do you make out in your uniforms or not?
- Prom Night: dressed up and dancing close to each other all night is driving you both crazy with anticipation. You’ve planned this for months – saving yourself for this special occasion. The night is going to be perfect – limo service, a few drinks, the motel room and a late curfew. You both look amazing, you’ve graduated and there’s only one thing to take care of before you truly consider yourself adults.
- Taboo Temptress: she’s a young nymphet – mischievous, naughty and of course very sexy. She’s fully aware of how to use her sexual power to get what she wants even if it means giving up her virginity. Being off limits to older guys makes it even more exciting for her. Maybe she’s the baby sitter that seduces the husband while he drives her home or the naughty school girl who wants her grades improved. Or maybe she wants to tempt a guy from a rival girl – to take his virginity before he can share it with her. But what will she want in return for her virgin secrecy?
- Sex Education: you’re a sexually maturing but innocent younger person looking for an older, more experienced partner to teach you the pleasures of making love. And of course they are more than happy to help you. Maybe an escort or stripper is hired to initiate you into sex as a birthday gift. Or a friend of your older brother or sister comes around to visit but no one else is home so you take advantage of the situation. Your fantasy initiation into sex could be from a neighbor, a stranger, a celebrity, a friend of the family or even a relative.
- Mature Virgin: she’s prim and proper on the outside but she’s ready to burst with sexual desire. You sense her need and see her beauty even though she tries to hide it. She’s afraid of her lust but secretly craves all the young men that pass her by. Maybe she’s a secretary or librarian that you catch reading the Kama Sutra
and offer to show her some of your own positions. Or maybe she’s an executive focused on her career and you’re the kind of assistant that wants to satisfy all her needs. Use your charms to crack her cold exterior and release her inhibitions. Show her how to “let her hair down” and prepare yourself for the most wildly intense sex of your life.
Here is a brief list of other virginity related roleplay games you can play that have a more intense fantasy theme:
- Harem girl inspected and taken by the Sultan or King
- Pagan initiation into the realm of sexual magic
- Black Mass or Aztec Virgin Sacrifice to the Gods
- Religious purity is defiled by your evil seduction
- Virginity auction at a Victorian brothel – see Fanny Hill
- Angel seduced by a demon or falls for a gorgeous mortal
- Sex slave auction with special premium on virgins
- Virgin offered as the prize for a gladiator contest
- Your virginity is offered as a payment or gift
- Virgin offered to a mythical beast, demon or alien
- Time travel allows you to take your partner’s virginity first
(Hi – you don’t know me yet but let’s have sex)
Although female virginity is conventionally valued more, these roleplay ideas can be adapted for either sex. Work in your own creative “proof of virginity” tests if you wish.
Remember that not all these fantasies are lovey-dovey type scenarios. In these roleplaying games you can be or do anything you want. Explore wild fantasies in your imagination just for the mental thrill – it doesn’t mean you want to do it in real life or that you condone it being done to others. These pretend bedroom games are for your sexual pleasure so enjoy yourselves any way you desire.
Wicked Temptations has a great collection of sexy costumes to choose from. Order a few for Halloween and use them later to role play a few sexual fantasies.
Cowboys and Indians – Roleplay Western Sexual Fantasies
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
Maybe you played cowboys and Indians as a kid or you’re fascinated by wild western movies with sexy movie stars. Maybe there’s something about the wilderness setting, the rugged characters, the clothing, the hot blooded conflict or the frontier attitudes that turns you on. Either way, cowboy, cowgirl and native Indian costumes can be used in a broad range of erotic dress up games for couples. While watching a western movie with your partner, take some time to discuss any fantasies you might like to act out.
Although your western roleplay games can be played in your bedroom, consider some authentic settings or accessories to get you even more in the mood. For example:
- Bales of straw (hay is very prickly) for a pretend hayloft
- In a barn – a clean horse stall or an actual hayloft
- A saddle and a bench to place it on at the right height (think rear entry)
- Outside in a meadow, in some tall grass or under/against a large tree
- In a rustic log cabin with a wood stove or fireplace
- Camping out in sleeping bags next to an open fire under the stars
- Cowboy hat, toys guns and of course cowboy boots
- Ankle length skirt, petticoat, lacy corset, pretty bonnet
- Rope, leather ties and a whip for tie-up games
Wicked Temptations has a large collection of sexy costumes and accessories to choose from. Order a few for Halloween and use them later to role play a few sexual fantasies.
It can be an erotic thrill just wearing the costumes while having sex especially in different locations. But you can spice up your bedroom games even more with a simple story line to roleplay. Here are a few ideas to inspire your western style dress-up games:
- Rugged farm hand seduced by the farmer’s daughter
- Saloon girl earns some extra money from a handsome Gun Slinger
- Innocent prairie farm girl caught masturbating in a field by a roving cowboy
- Sexy Indian Princess rescued by a courageous cowboy and rewarded
- Indian girl and cowboy stranded alone together learn to “communicate”
- Female (Indian, cowgirl, homesteader) captured, kidnapped or rescued by a cowboy, warrior brave or soldier
- Indian warrior girl captures a missionary worker and decides to corrupt him
- Prim and proper lady secretly wants a taste of the wild side (cowboy or Indian)
- Sick or injured cowboy is rescued and nursed to health by Indian woman
- Cowgirl captures an Indian warrior but fall for each other
- Sheriff uses his authority to get what he wants in or out of town
And of course there are many BDSM related themes involving more intense activities such as bondage, sex slave and forced sex fantasies. Remember that not all fantasies need to be acted out fully. Sometimes you can just dress the part and let your imaginations run wild while making love. Just give your partner some clues as to how you want the sex to proceed – slow and tender or hard and fast. You can each have your own related but separate fantasies to play out in your own mind while enjoying each other physically.
Arabian Nights Sexual Fantasy Erotic Roleplay
Posted by Michael Kortekaas
The 1001 Arabian Nights stories have fueled many exotic fantasies involving treasure, power, temptation and seduction all wrapped in a veil of erotic mystery and intrigue. It’s easy to imagine palace life as a rich and powerful sultan, a rebellious princess, an obedient harem girl or even a submissive royal slave. You can spice up your fantasy with unique customs, fanciful garments, sultry music and intoxicating sensations of smell, taste and sight. Mix in some magic genies and you have all the ingredients for a wild adventure in a far off land. There are many types of dress up games for couples you can explore in this enchanted dream world.
To make this sexual fantasy experience exceptional, get some accessories and prepare an exotic setting. You can create an oasis of pleasure in your bedroom using:
- Silk or satin lingerie – long and flowing robes or gowns
- Collection of colorful silk scarves
- Sheets or material draped from the ceiling to form a tent
- Exotic music – soft and flowing or pulsating with excitement
- Incense and candles or lamps
- Bowls of sensual food – fruit, chocolate, honey, oysters
- Wine or some other refreshing drink
- Persian carpets or throw rugs
- Scented or flavored massage oil
- Costume jewelry – nipple and body jewelry if you desire
- Pillows – lots and lots of throw pillows
Erotic, Arabian style costumes can also help set the mood and enable you to more easily get into character.
Wicked Temptations has a great collection of sexy costumes to choose from. Order a few for Halloween and use them later to role play a few sexual fantasies.
It can be an erotic thrill making love surrounded by enchanting decorations or just wearing the costumes while having sex. But you can spice up your bedroom games even more with a simple story line to roleplay. Here are a few ideas to inspire your Middle Eastern style dress-up games for couples:
- You’re a Sultan reclining on a mound of pillows and decide you want some erotic entertainment. Clap three times to signal your harem or slave girl to enter – your every wish is her command. The veiled temptress dances seductively as she reveals all her charms. She pampers you with pleasure – succulent fruit, a sensual massage and what ever else you desire.
- You’re the Queen of the Nile and you’re feeling frisky. You take exquisite pleasure teasing your royal guards during inspection – one slip and they could be punished severely. As you whet your appetite, you come across a guard with impressive features – can he satisfy your hunger or will your regular servant be called to fulfill your desires? Or maybe you want them all.
- You’re a Harem girl kidnapped or rescued by the Prince of Thieves. Is he the ruthless bandit you’ve heard stories about or the freedom fighter that deserves your gratitude? What will you have to do to avoid being sent back or sold into slavery?
- You are both slaves and have been selected to entertain a royal audience with … public sex. And this better not be a short sex show! Dancing, stripping, kissing, licking and fornicating must all be done to the rhythm of the music. If you’re good, one or both of you will become sex servants otherwise a worse fate awaits.
- You’re a slave (male or female) up for auction and being inspected by potential buyers. How much will you go for and for what purpose? Mysterious voices call out bids from the darkness – some comment on how you will be used. A sex slave for one of the buyers seems to be the best option to hope for.
- When you polish an intricately designed bottle you just found, a sexy, magic genie appears before you. Freed from the bottle they are yours to command – every wish, every desire can be yours – but there are certain rules and conditions. The genie has been trapped for many years and is extremely horny – sexual energy fuels their magic powers. If you want something big, you’ll have to work for it.
- You’re a princess searching through the palace when you discover a special chamber. A glowing, crystal wand captures you attention – it’s a ceremonial glass dildo used by the high priest to deflower sacrificial virgins. An overwhelming lust takes over as you begin to masturbate with it. In the throes of passion, a cryptic message appears in your mind. You utter the secret incantation releasing the G-spot Genie. With his magic hands, he completes your pleasuring when ever you need him.
To further enhance your roleplay games, prepare ahead of time:
- Practice various Kama Sutra
- Watch Arabian themed movies with lavish costumes and sets
- Explore erotic and historic art depicting harem or palace life
- Read erotic novels involving harem or slave girls
harem or slave girls
- Take a Belly Dance
or Strip Tease course
Remember that many of the movies and books about harems and Arabian customs are fictional. Your roleplay games can be as wild and exotic as you want without worry about historical accuracy or political sensitivity – they are your fantasies to explore as a couple. Make up your own rules to suit your erotic bedroom games – repressed sexuality, rigid laws and strict social customs can all be adapted to enhance your roleplay experience. And when genies come to play, let your erotic imagination go completely wild.
And of course feel free to swap the conventional male and female roles in any of your sexual fantasies and erotic roleplay games. The imaginary world you create for your bedroom games is under your total creative control.
