The erotic mind is a complex thing that forms and evolves based on our experiences combined with our physical brain make up. How we develop erotic fantasies that turn us on while other sexual thoughts do absolutely nothing or even turn us off is still only partially understood. Even gender and associated body chemistry does not fully control the types of sexual thoughts we have or enjoy. If you read the real sexual fantasies of women and men collected in the books by Nancy Friday, you’ll see a wide range of dirty thoughts about all kinds of things.
Female Fellatio Fantasies
When it comes to blow jobs, many women do fantasize about wanting to perform it and are eager to learn how to give the best blow jobs. Even straight men may contemplate or fantasize what it’s like to perform fellatio. Also, many straight people of both sexes do eroticize what it might feel like to be the opposite gender having sex. Here are some ideas to explore unconventional blow job fantasies:
- Some women get turned on by watching gay porn similar to the fact that many guys enjoy watching two women playing together. Using a strap-on dildo, various gay activities can be roleplayed.
- Explore erotic gender empathy by switching roles. Cross dress if desired and use a good strap-on harness and realistic dildo for some kinky blow job roleplay. Get an entirely different perspective on the joys of oral sex.
- You could both pretend to be lesbians exploring a strap-on dildo for the first time. One of you would of course have a much more realistic “dildo” to play with.
- Attach a dildo with a suction cup base in a position for doggie-style penetration. Have a pretend threesome with her using the hands free dildo and giving you a blow job at the same time. Add a butt plug and more dildos for even more erotic multi-tasking action.
- When performing cunnilingus, help her to imagine that her clitoris is a penis and you’re giving her a blow job using similar sucking sensations. Take her cues and dirty talk to guide your actions.
Sexy Sucking Scenarios
Here is a mixed up list of sex play scenarios to inspire your next session of oral sex play:
- You’ve both made a sex bet on a game but it ends in a tie. You flip a special sex coin with heads winning fellatio for him and tails winning cunnilingus for her.
- Dressed as a cheerleader she makes the game more exciting especially during commercials.
- In a pool or near a dock dressed as or just pretending to be a mermaid, she surprises a man roleplaying as a castaway. Seduced by her hypnotic beauty, he’s about to find out that she loves to eat … semen.
- The Evil Queen has a big problem and needs an innocent virgin to sacrifice her purity and take on the monster growing between her legs. The queen turns into a handsome prince in this fairy tale.
- She pretends to be a stripper performing a lap dance but gets so turned on by the bulge in his pants she decides to offer him a blow job (for a fee of course).
- After exchanging knowing glances, a hot secretary follows you to a private room to give you a quickie blowjob.
- A hot female boss calls you into her office and offers you a different kind of bonus on her desk.
- She discovers a new blow job technique. Instead of just trying it out on him, she tells him that there’s a special surprise waiting for him but he needs to be tied up and blindfolded first. She then tells him her girlfriend from out of town is over and wants to give him a blow job. Apply a new perfume and a quick change of clothing to roleplay as another woman providing new oral sensations.
- Roleplay a vampire scenario that involves Dracula’s new bride having to accept his demon seed orally in order to transform. Or she’s a vampire feeding on a poor soul sleeping naked and alone.
- The president or other powerful politician has a new intern eager to make a good impression.
- Female prisoner offers to give the sheriff a blow job through the bars for special treatment.
- A Greek sex god statue springs an erection when a lone woman is near. It can’t move but grants a special wish to any woman who performs fellatio on it.
- Speeding woman negotiates a way to get out of a traffic ticket.
- Alien abduction leads to some interesting sex experiments.
- Pretend that either or both of you are rock stars or celebrities with back stage access.
- Guy pretends to be in a full body cast with only his dick exposed. A very nice nurse helps him scratch an itch. At least his boner isn’t broken.
- A naughty nun helps a priest get through a long and explicitly detailed sexual confession.
- Sexy maid catches a guy masturbating in an all inclusive resort and offers to finish the job.
- Roleplay different ethnicities or exotic cultures that you find erotic.
- Stewardess puts the plane on auto and takes control of the pilot’s joy stick.
- Director casting for porn stars wants a private blow job demonstration and a few head shots for reference.
- Guy visits a peep show and uses a glory hole for an anonymous blow job. Make one using cardboard, plywood or drywall.
- Make a close up private porn video with slow motion action. Recreate some of the porn scenes you both find erotic.
- Roleplay an alternate way to pay for a cab or ride sharing service.
- Roleplay as a street hooker, call girl or high end escort with a specialty for oral sex.
- Pretend you are the stars in the spot light, center stage of a sex show.
- Cat woman has some fun with the criminals she catches before sending them to prison.
There are lots of different blow job fantasies and sexual roleplay ideas to explore. For more blowjob related roleplaying ideas, see the rest of our article:
- Oral Sex Fantasies & RolePlay Scenarios for the Perfect Blowjob
- Oral Sex Fantasies: Cock Tease & Licking Locations
Your best blow job is most likely still to come. So as you learn more tips and techniques on how to give a great blow job, remember that the perfect blowjob comes down to playful practice and lots of it. Use the ideas in this article and start enjoying better blowjobs right now. Start playing the right kind of head games together and keep a head in your relationship.
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