Dirty Dating Ideas to Inspire Your Sexual Role-play Games

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For many couples, regular date nights are setup to reconnect and keep the romance alive. Dinner, drinks, dancing or even just a movie can make for a nice night out on the town. But what if you’re looking for more erotic excitement and sexual thrills to spice up your love live. Why not include some sexual role-play games to make your hot dates together even more exciting and memorable. Here are some dirty dating ideas for couples to help make your sexual fantasies come true.

Sex on the Menu

A sex date doesn’t mean you need to skip the wining and dining. Even if you’re married, you can invite your partner to a special dinner at your own home and request that they arrive as a guest at a specified time. Meeting separately at a restaurant and pretending to be newly acquainted or different people also works. Here are a few sexy scenarios where good food and great sex is definitely on the menu:

  • Arrange an erotic nature adventure to a secluded location where you can enjoy a picnic and other sensual delights. Add a forbidden feel by pretending to be secret lovers about to consummate a socially condemned affair.
  • Pretend you’re co-workers from different countries meeting face to face for the first time on a business trip. You’ve enjoyed flirting with lots of erotic text messages and even had phone sex a few times. The team building event is the perfect chance to fulfill your fantasies.
  • Go grocery shopping together and buy a wide variety of fruits and other sensual snacks to feed to or eat off each other. Include chocolate sauce and whipped cream of course. Add a selection of good wine or liquors as well then head back for a delicious night of decadent pleasure. Pretend to be at a Roman orgy, in an Arabian Nights fantasy or some other divine feast fit for the rich and powerful.

Hot Hotel Hook-ups

Whether it’s a high end hotel for a classy affair or a cheap motel for quick and dirty deeds, a private room that isn’t your bedroom can make sex more exciting. Here are a few sex scenarios involving adult play outside the home:

  • Meet at a sleazy motel for a quickie in the afternoon then head home pretending nothing happened. Pretend to be having an affair with a naughty neighbour, partner’s friend or even role-play as another couple you know.
  • You’re a high roller at a casino playing heads up poker and sex with each other’s partner is added to the stakes. Maybe a pretend threesome is in the cards or you’re forced to “watch” as your lover is ravished. Or, with your partner blindfolded, a secretive crime boss (you in disguise) collects on a debt.
  • Instead of going to the movies, get a hotel room and bring along some porn and popcorn. Pretend (if necessary) that this is the only alone time you can find together and haven’t had sex in ages.
  • Pretend you’re meeting an escort or gigolo. Meet at the hotel restaurant or bar, covertly slip your partner a key and secretly get together later for your fantasy affair.
  • Role-play as a porn star casting agent screening a potential candidate looking for a job.
  • Go out of town shopping for sex toys and other erotic accessories then go to a hotel to play.

Sex with Strangers or Friends

Sexual fantasies of anonymous sex, one night stands and quickies with strangers are common. The risks and forbidden nature of these types of sexual encounters adds to their appeal and makes the sex feel more intense. Although not as easy as it seems, you can pretend to be total strangers in these role-play scenarios:

  • Have a pretend threesome or more-some using toys, multiple sets of clothing, wigs, etc to make it seem more real. A male strap-on harness with various shapes and sizes of dildos might come in handy. Using a blindfold on the person receiving the pleasure of multiple partners can help too.
  • Pickup your stranger walking on the side of the road as if offering their services for a fee.
  • You’ve just been driven home using a ride sharing service and the meter is running but you’re payment has been declined. Without cash, offering sex is the only option.
  • Invite friends over and play dirty truth or dare together. Keep the sex play between couples or mix it up. It’s more fun with other couples playing but you could each pretend to be multiple players.
  • Make your own glory hole or peep show using a piece of plywood or drywall.

Lovemaking Locations


 
A bedroom is a comfortable place to make love but there are so many exciting locations to have passionate sex. Whether spontaneous and urgent or planned for fun, sex in new locations can be extremely thrilling. One of our articles titled 69 Places For Passion – Lusty Locations to Make Love will give you lots of dating ideas. Try to check off all 69 lovemaking locations and come up with more of your own. You may want to plan some vacation sex dates in order to check some locations off your list. Here are a few location based sex scenarios:
 

  • Rent a moving van and get a blow up mattress for the back. You could go parking almost anywhere and have sex even if it’s just in your own driveway or garage.
  • Pretend to be hot’n horny high school sweethearts out for a drive to a nearby make-out spot.
  • Do a house/apartment swap with another couple or quickly redecorate a room. Maybe pretend to be the other couple or that you’ve swapped partners too.

Gender Play Games

If you can pull it off and feel comfortable doing it, you could try going out on the town dressed as the opposite sex. Either one or both of you could experiment with cross dressing. Or keep it on the down-low and play dress up privately at home or in a hotel room. Either way, erotic role-playing as different genders or having alternate sexual preferences provides some interesting possibilities for your kinky sex games. Here are some sexy scenarios to play with:

  • Pretend lesbian seduction and initiation into first time female pleasuring. Maybe a sexy neighbour or co-worker is invited over for dinner and other oral delights. Or a friend offers to give a make over that turns into a make out session.
  • Dungeon Master/Mistress appointment for a private training session either as a submissive sex slave or to learn the ropes of BDSM first hand. You can play this game without any gender changes but why not mix it up. There are lots of kinky variations to explore with either of you dressed up to play the dungeon master or dominatrix.
  • Pretend to have a gay hook-up. Be sure to get a good strap-on harness and a realistic penis dildo if you plan on experimenting with oral or pegging play. Characters could be co-workers, boss and employee, sports team mates, a date from an online service or a stranger picked up somewhere for anonymous sex.
  • You can easily role-play any sexy scenario with both of you dressed up as the opposite sex. See Reverse Call Girl for an example where the guy plays the call girl and the woman plays the male client.

Shopping for gender play dress up outfits and other accessories together can also be an erotic date. It helps you find something that you both find attractive and suits your sexual fantasies. Pretend you’re shopping with help from a friend to surprise a partner that just happens to be your exact size. You can also order some sexy outfits online too. See our article Sexual Role-play Ideas for Gay, Lesbian & Bi-Curious Couples for more information to enhance your gender play.

Get Out and Play Dirty

Although you can easily explore these sexual role-play ideas at home, getting out of your bedroom for a sexy rendezvous makes it more thrilling. Just moving your erotic role-play games to a different room can boost the excitement level. But if you’re paying for a room, make sure your hotel sex is special. Get into character, dress up, break out the sex toys and go all the way.

For more naughty nights of frisky fun, check out Dirty Dates: Erotic Fantasies for Couples. With this book for inspiration, you’ll enjoy many erotic adventures together as you combine kinky sex with your romance. Make sure your 50th date is even hotter than your first.