It’s hard to believe but some men don’t want or even enjoy getting blowjobs. Of course, most men can’t get enough oral sex and are always eager for more. Women have similar mixed feelings about giving head. Some love it and give amazing blowjobs, many will do it like an actual job when they “have to” and some don’t go anywhere near a dick with their lips. Unfortunately in too many relationships, both men and women are having blowjob fantasies and desires that are not being satisfied. For whatever reasons you’re not giving or receiving oral sex, you’ll end up playing mind games where you both lose. So, let’s explore some oral sex fantasies and erotic roleplaying scenarios to inspire your lust for licking and sucking.
The following blowjob ideas are intended for both his and her pleasure. I hope you have fun discussing, adapting and playing with these oral sex ideas together. Keep an open mind about ideas that may seem a little too kinky to avoid squashing any fantasies your lover may have. Be sure to mix in your own fantasies and desires and hopefully you’ll discover the sensual and emotional ingredients you both need to enjoy the perfect blowjob. For an excellent guide on how to give a great blow job, see Jack’s BJ Lessons.
Head Starts
Essentially any blowjob is better than no blowjob. Sensual oral penis pleasuring is a great part of foreplay to get ready for intercourse. Amazing blowjobs continue right to climax. Diet and hygiene are important factors contributing to smell and taste which may be an issue for some. Try eating pineapple or kiwi before hand and definitely avoid asparagus. Trimming pubic hair may also be something to consider. Now for some basic blowjob ideas:
- Deep throating is not always desired and can be an impressive feat for some. Women do like the challenge and guys appreciate the effort. Usually just a few attempts to get it all in works wonders.
- Swallowing is something both men and women fantasize about. Taste and quantity of semen can influence the enjoyment factor.
- Gagging while deep throating is a sign you’re pushing the limits. The ability to suppress your gag reflex is a skill that can be learned with practice and most good men value the effort involved. Also, women wearing mascara tend to show their hard work. Taking a huge dick in your mouth and down your throat can make your eyes water leaving black streaks – a look that some people appreciate and find erotic.
- Have some fun with different taste sensations by dribbling on some chocolate sauce or sweet liquor. Get a little nasty and erotically lick off drips of yogurt as a prelude to what you’re going to be doing later. Turn him into a delicious treat by topping him off with some whipped cream before devouring him.
- Try out Different Oral Sex Positions to experiment with comfort and various other feelings (emotional and sensual) that come with them. Kneeling while he stands feels different than laying down together. You can also creatively use furniture to adjust your positions for more variety.
Head Games
Both men and women have various hang-ups and anxieties about blowjobs. It may be considered demeaning and wrong by some while others view it as sensual and empowering. There are lots of different emotions at play that can ruin the intimate experience or make it the best, most memorable blow job ever. Sharing how you both think about oral sex allows you to explore different perspectives and come at it with an attitude of mutual arousal. When it comes to giving or getting head, play some head games so you both win.
- Use lots of moaning, dirty talk and other sounds to indicate you’re enjoying it.
- Guys love watching your lips wrap around their dick and seeing your expression as you lick and suck on it. Making eye contact and showing enthusiasm also makes it more enjoyable. Women want to see how much pleasure they’re providing as well. That means avoid doing it in complete darkness. Candlelight at night sets the mood and lets you see the good stuff.
- Men are visual creatures and can become more turned on with how sexy you look while performing a blowjob. Consider applying fresh lipstick before going down on him. You might also keep all or some clothing on especially sexy lingerie. For an extra special treat, give him a blowjob while dolled up in elegant evening wear and high heels. The sight of a prim and proper lady sucking cock makes it feel even hotter.
- Women can also be turned on by what the guy is wearing. Skip the sweat pants and try on a full business suit or uniform to receive your blowjob. Dressing up like a cowboy, construction worker, fireman, cop or military man may also turn her on.
- Add a bit of mystery by having him wear a blindfold or her wearing a mask and maybe even a wig.
- Giving a blowjob can make a woman feel empowered especially if she’s confident in her oral skills. She can take total control of his pleasure and orgasm. Guys can also embrace a more passive role and allow her to make him weak in the knees. Even when a woman takes on a submissive role during oral sex play, the sense of power over his pleasure can be exciting.
- Believing that good girls just don’t do that, but doing it anyway is always fun. Enjoy the erotic thrill of being bad. Doing something dirty, nasty and forbidden can make sex feel more intense.
There are lots of different blow job fantasies and sexual roleplay ideas to explore. For more blowjob related roleplaying ideas, see the rest of our article:
- Oral Sex Fantasies: Cock Tease & Licking Locations
- Oral Sex Fantasies: Female Fellatio Fantasies & Sexy Sucking Scenarios
Your best blow job is most likely still to come. So as you learn more tips and techniques on how to give a great blow job, remember that the perfect blowjob comes down to playful practice and lots of it. Use the ideas in this article and start enjoying better blowjobs right now. Start playing the right kind of head games together and keep a head in your relationship.
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